Dylan Shawn Raynsford

2008 - 2008
LocationBasingstoke
Age0
Cause of DeathOther Disease
Date of Birth08/08/2008
Date of Death08/08/2008
Visitors3,731 since 02/11/2008
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When I found out I was pregnant with Dylan I was scared as I had only just given birth 2 his sister
and she was born two months early due to a difficult pregnancy. I was told Dylan would be born at
30wks but managed to hold of until he was full term (37wks) before he was born. He was born on the
8th August 2008 after a 65 hour labour at 3:51am weighing 6lb2 and a half.
When he was born he was making a funny grunting noise and blowing bubbles. We was told it was normal
and that he was going downstairs for an hour.
A few hours later he was still downstairs and I was discharged home. We was told he might be
transferred to another hospital as it was the weekend and there weren't enough staff for him. An
hour after I had gotten home I received a phone call from the hospital to say he was being
transferred. Me and my husband got there within 10 minutes. We was taken into a small room and told
that Dylan was going to die soon.
They took us to him and I held him and then they switched off his machines. He died in my arms 14
hours after he was born with his Daddy Grandad and both his Nannies around him.
We found out that during the pregnancy I had contracted Group B Strep. If you have it your supposed
to have antibiotics during the labour to stop the baby from catching it. Because they never knew I
had it until after Dylan was born I wasn't given the antibiotics and unfortunately Dylan caught it
as he was being born. He got into his blood stream and caused septicemia. It traveled around his
body making his organs fail.
The funeral was so hard. His Grandad carried his coffin into the chapel and his Daddy carried him 2
the grave where he now lays.
Losing Dylan was the worse thing ever. I'm living in a daily nightmare that I can't seem to wake
from. His Daddy and big brother Michael and sisters Chloe and Jasmine miss him lots and I would do
anything to be able to give him one more cuddle. He will always be my special baby boy. I miss him
so much and I will never forget or stop loving him


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To my darling precious boy

Its coming up to another xmas without you and I don't know how I'm gonna face it. Your little sister might be here by then and everyone will expect me to be happy which I will be but not as much as I would be if I had you here.

Marie and Chrissy are helping me to make you garden all nice and pretty and hopefully after xmas can finally get your headstone sorted. I just want to make it a place that your proud of and so everyone will know how much we love and care for you.

Me and Nanny are gonna go see Colin Fry on saturday. We would love it so much if we had a message from you. I know that there is lots of people gonna be there but it would make our year if we heard that you was ok.

I love you so much Baby I hate not having you here with me. We all do.

Love you lots and lots

Mummy x x x

Lauren Dylans Mummy (Mummy) 1 week ago

Precious little soldier xx

aww lauran am so sorry ive had you on facebook for ages and now came across dylans site he was stunning such a precious lil angel.! Im so sorry for your loss thinkign of you all keep shinign brightly beautiful in the sky baby boy and sleep tight hope your friends with nathan floaty kisses and lots of hugs for your family love Hayley xxxx

Hayley Bateman 2 weeks ago

On angel wings you do fly
On angel wings into the sky
On angel wings i do cry
Because those angel wings took you away
On angel wings the heralds sing
Is there no such lovely thing?
On angel wings you fly away.
I will see these angel wings again someday
When i am old and my time has come
On angel wings I will fly
Until I'm holding you once again
Smiling on angel wings.

Shelley Ross October 12, 2009

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Karen Barnfield September 20, 2009

Hello Sweetheart

You were 13 months old on Tuesday and I found it harder then I did when you was a month old. All the numbness that I had the first year has worn off and now the knowledge that you are no longer here with us seems so real.

Your baby cousin Luke has been born. We were worried cos Auntie Sarah had Strep B as well like Mummy did but he is fine. I was scared he would look like you, I didn't know how I would feel loking at him and seeing you stare back but thankfully he looks like Auntie Sarah.

Jasmine isn't very well she has a bad cold but she is still being her cheeky little stuff. I think about the mischeif you two would be having together how you would both drive me mad. I remember moaning about how I was dreading it when you was still in my tummy what I wouldn't give to know what its like.

Jasmine saw a picture yesterday of you and said you are her baby brother. Made so proud to hear her say that. When we come and see you she picks flowers to put on your bed. She keeps breaking the fence down to get to your cars and Upsy Daisy but Daddy and I tell her that they're yours so she puts them back.

Jessica is growing fine I'm worried that she will catch Strep B as well but I know that she has a very special big brother looking after her.

I love you so much Baby Boy always and forever

Lots of love

Mummy x x x x

Lauren Dylans Mummy (Mummy) September 10, 2009

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Karen Barnfield September 5, 2009

Hey Baby

Well I'm sure you will know cos you was with me watching but you're gonna have a baby sister. I can't believe your gonna be a big brother. Jessica wouldn't be able to have a better one then you.

Please help us make sure shes ok. I couldn't stand it if I lost her like I lost you.

Love you lots and lots baby boy

Love Mummy xxxx

Lauren Dylans Mummy (Mummy) August 13, 2009

for you little man xxxx

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Karen Barnfield August 12, 2009

My baby was taking by Strep A very suddenly too. Have fun and play together. x x lol x x

Fiona Edwards August 8, 2009

Hello Sweetheart

Well its finally here, your first birthday. Happy Birthday. I really do hope that you are having an amazing time and that you have a good party.

Me and Daddy will come and see you later when Nanny come down. I put up your birthday decrations down there last night, I hope you like them. We will be having your birthday cake later I'm sure it will be delicious.

We all miss you so much and wish you was here with us celebrating.

Love you always and forever.

Mummy xxxxx

Lauren Dylans Mummy (Mummy) August 8, 2009
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